Our Hot Wives Review

Menopause and Stress Killing Our Fun is not a thread title you will find on a porn tube, and it sits a few lines below Young Men and Older Hotwives? on the front page of Our Hot Wives. This is a hotwife forum for married couples who live it or want to, and most of the regulars have decades of marriage behind them.

The sections are split the way the lifestyle splits. The Hotwife Forum is "for hotwives and the men who adore them", the Cuckold Forum is for "cuckoldresses and the men who serve them", and Stag/Vixen gives a home to couples who love to share without the humiliation. Poly covers the moment "a fuck buddy becomes something more", while a "Wannabe" section lets the couples who are not there yet compare notes.

The best thread on the board is the Ask a Hotwife thread, which only verified hotwives may answer. A thread about a wife who will not swallow runs next to one asking what happens if she falls in love, and a long-running thread asking why a man would want his wife to sleep with another one has been open since 2007 and passed 1.7 million views.

What keeps Our Hot Wives decent is a rule. Asking others to seduce an unwilling wife, or for tips on tricking one, gets a member banned, and the moderators state plainly that the first rule of the lifestyle is communication. That rule matters to women my age, who have heard every version of the sales pitch at home.

Fiction has its own corner in The Library, and the rules forbid calling out a well-written story posted as fact, since in this lifestyle the true ones are often stranger. The pictures and the personals stay behind a free registration, so a guest reads words, not photos.

The rule against religion and politics ends on a line worth quoting in full: "Save that shit for your extended family during Thanksgiving dinner."